by Deborah Cox | Jun 13, 2020 | anger, Becoming More of Your True Self, cultural healing, dissociation, EMDR, getting grounded, parenting, Reconceive, Relational Cultural Theory, Relationships
16 Anger Truths This list of anger truths comes from my own and other people’s research, as well as my nearly 30 years in the mental health industry. I’ll be back soon to discuss each item here. For today, I want to put the list in front of you. It matters...
by Deborah Cox | Jun 9, 2020 | anger, cultural healing, EMDR, Reconceive, Relational Cultural Theory
What IS Anger? People yelling at each other Beer cans smashed on tables Fistfights When you think of anger, what immediately comes to mind? Insight? I doubt it. Chairs thrown through windows? People out of control? Someone getting shot in the face? Obscenities...
by Deborah Cox | Jun 7, 2020 | anger, Becoming More of Your True Self, cultural healing, EMDR, Mood, Reconceive
Right now, we need to be pissed off: Anger wisdom changes things. 20 years ago, I co-wrote The Anger Advantage. My co-authors and I wanted to change the world with our message: Your anger wisdom helps you know things. So many people misunderstand anger. They shut it...
by Deborah Cox | Sep 13, 2018 | Becoming More of Your True Self, EMDR, Feel Better, following inspiration, Therapy
Lift Up & Away from Religious Trauma Fiction (and memoir) reorganizes our internal narratives, and allows us to try on the emotional resources of others. It does this, not by selling us products or threatening us with what we MUST-do-or-be-damned, but by...
by Deborah Cox | Aug 15, 2018 | Becoming More of Your True Self, Coaching For the Therapist, EMDR, Feel Better, Mood, Therapy
Energetic Healing = Body + Energy + Trauma Therapy As a psychology student in the 90s, I heard the message: Don’t mess with spirituality. We can’t measure it. It’s private. But now, a tsunami of change is sweeping the therapy world . . . and...
by Deborah Cox | Mar 31, 2018 | Becoming More of Your True Self, Coaching For the Therapist, EMDR, Feel Better, Relational Cultural Theory, Relationships, Relax. You're normal.
Maybe our flaws even make us lovable. My Flaws I have a few characteristics of which I’m not proud. Most of them fall into the category of “uptightness” . . . fear and shame and rigidity. Before EMDR, I would not have written this post for fear of public...
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